However if you had to pick one of them, think about it this way. Just something to think about. Maybe you could pray about it too and ask God to show you who the right man in your life should be.
If you have to ask this question then your current partner is not the right one, you should never have any doubts about who you want to be with.
But, I go to school he is homeschooled we and other kids do an after school activity but I met a boy 6 months ago that walks me home everyday, makes me happy, is cute go to my school, and always laughs at everything I say. I … Read more ». I know it might really hurt, but personally I believe you should seriously rethink your relationship with guy 2.
If youre lacking something with him, he miht not be the one. I know nobody is perfect but if you dont love him as much he might not be it. Guy 1 i dont believe he deserves a second chance after he hurt you and walked away..
He may be sorry but the damage is already done and you have already healed. I hope you dont cut open an old scar. Maybe there is someone else out there waiting for you? I almost lost him while trying to decide and with that helped me to realize that he was the better choice, I was afraid to be vulnerable to another man after the first one kind of disappointed me but I still dealt with him because I … Read more ».
One is an ex and the other is a older man I met who helped me build back up after my ex. Me and my ex split up after we lost our baby and we kinda just lost the flame. He came back saying it was a mistake. The older man takes care of me financially and he is stable. My ex is trying to make me believe he can be good and not to worry because we will be okay no matter what.
I just worry in my … Read more ». I have to choose at 12 who I stay with. I hate this, I wish I could just leave and be all alone. He did not put me first in the marriage, would not communicate but continued to say that he loved me. He is trying so hard to get back with me he has made changes he now communicates and realizes that I have to be number one in his life. He wants to remarry me but as of last summer someone I knew 40 years ago came into my life , I consider him such a good friend my children and my … Read more ».
I found this interesting to reply to based on what you wrote. For new guy you have feelings … Read more ». April I am in a very similar situation. My ex who left me and is begging for forgiveness and a new man who loves me and takes care of me financially. Did you make a decisions, how did it go? I too suffer in attempting to decide between two men. Who adores me loves me and has went through some trials of me and my husband seperation.. I love my bf, but the second guy seems to be convincing me that I should just give him a chance.
The thing is, if I choose him, that would mean breaking up with my bf, but if I stay in this relationship, I might miss out on an amazing person. My bf of almost 2 years and a man I went on a date with before my current bf and I met have become very close. My bf and I have our issues but he will encourage me explore more but lacks romance has a much lower sex drive and is older. The younger one has a similar sex drive makes me feel safe is so romantic and kind. But I wont be as encouraged to explore.
I am weighing how much I value that kick in the ass to try new things vs security. He wants to remarry me but as of last summer someone I knew 40 years ago came into my life , I considered. My ex as a good friend my children and … Read more ». I think your ex husband sounds like the better option, except for the part about you not feeling any chemistry.
Have you stopped loving him or is it the passion that has died out? It seems like he is just not a very affectionate but is realizing his mistakes and wanting to change. And the other guy is married, right? From what you wrote, I would say that your ex husband sounds like the better choice, especially since he still seems … Read more ».
I relate to this!! I felt like I had some kind of spark with my ex boyfriend. I still love my ex, I know I would go back to him in a heartbeat. But then the second guy is just so sweet. I felt like my ex cared more about me than the second guy does. Any opinions? I broke up with my ex boyfriend because we were long distance and he seemed to be taking me for granted, and then I met this other boy because his friend dm-ed me from his Instagram account, and he is super sweet.
I have the exactly same issue. My boyfriend of five months broke up with me only after three months of dating and I became friends with this second one. The second one is seventeen years younger than me! I told him I was not interested in having more children.
I have one 11 year old and because of my age. He is 26 and said he is ok with no having children. My boyfriend is 48, have Two adult kids and two young ones and live with his mom.
My story is a bit different, i dated a guy for 3 years. I was very in love for a long time but we had very different views in many things but always tried to make it work, we shared many interests and made so many memories together. It was exhausting. I began gaining feelings for a guy that i had known for 2 years, … Read more ».
That is a window into your future. As women, we all know what we want and what we can tolerate. This being after you have made an investment in the relationship.
If he is making it hard, manipulative etc. Then build on that. Really should be … Read more ». I have a problem. I have never dated either of these guys. One is older and experienced. The other is my age and turns me on. They are both sweet, handsome, and make me feel like the most beautiful woman. I see both of these guys everyday. Ladies…I need help. I am in love with two men. My ex and I split 1 year ago. We broke up because I began my teaching degree and had to move to another city, he said he could not be in a long distance relationship.
I started dating another guy 8 months ago. He is very sweet and kind.. The little things he does annoys me. Your new boyfriend will find happiness once you set him free. You know you are hurting him and all understand his side. Think long and hard will work out with your ex to take that chance or no if not then chose the other guy.
Ladies, I too am having major major issues here. I was with a man for 9 hrs. I loved him so much but he let me down a few times in a major way.
I accepted things and moved on with him but it really made me feel bad, so several years later aka this summer I decided to get my own place and move on. We have so much in common and really only broke up because at the time we … Read more ». I too am in a love triangle. He never cheated or wandered, but he was content with just dating me. What did you decided? Or between this man that I have known for 2 years.
We have am amazing connection in and out the bedroom. But in the last 6 months that we have been seeing each other he wasmy always honest about his soon to be ex wife. I talk to them all equally. I see all of them all the time. Keep walking. Avoid looking at him. Wave awkwardly. Hug him. They all confuse me. Person 1 is the relationship. Person 2 shows love and affection.
Person 3 is so nice. Which one fits the description below: He likes me, compliments me daily, knows how I feel about him, and makes me laugh all the time. All of them. Comments Change color. They are both really cute so i can not really decide who to choose. Yikes I'm a girl and I'm honestly being torn between two guys. Person 1 doesn't show too much signs of liking me A better kind of quiz site: no pop-ups, no registration requirements, just high-quality quizzes that you can create and share on your social network.
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Not being in a relationship really isn't bad. In fact, it's much better than being burned. Learn from your mistakes. If you've dated a certain guy before and the relationship ended poorly, don't make the same mistake all over again with another guy. Even if you feel attracted to him, what's the use in going through the same thing all over again if it caused you heartbreak and misery?
Don't rush it. Don't feel like you need to make a decision right away. Your decision could take some time. During that time, hopefully, one of the guys will do something good or bad to make the decision much easier for you.
As long as you haven't committed to either guy and don't feel like you're being disloyal to one guy by hanging out with the other, then you should take some time to make the decision.
Just don't drag it on too long. If you pick one guy, but he finds out that you've been hanging out with another guy for the last few months, then he may feel slightly hurt or confused. Keep in mind, healthy relationships should feel like a calm ocean, not a total rollercoaster. Part 2. Commit to the guy you've chosen. Once you've made your decision, stick to it.
That doesn't mean you have to tell the guy, "Hey, I chose you over Guy A! The commitment is something you make through your actions and your heart. Work on building a healthy, stable relationship with the guy you've chosen -- and only the guy you've chosen. Enjoy the benefits of being with one person without wondering what another guy is up to. If you feel empty or incomplete without the other guy, then it may either mean that you made the wrong decision or that you never liked the first guy that much in the first place -- you only liked the chase.
Be friendly to the other guy but don't go out of your way to hang out with him or do stuff alone together. If you're overly friendly with him, he might think that he still has a chance. Plus, it might get the guy you chose unnecessarily jealous. Be prepared for the aftermath. Know that choosing between two guys will affect your relationship with both of them. This is the double-edged sword of relationships: chances are good that you're going to break the other guy's heart and miss out on a relationship with him.
If the guy you don't choose doesn't know about the first guy, you don't have to make it a big deal or give him the real reason why you're ending your "relationship. Know that you may turn guys against each other. What if both guys are best friends? What do you do then? If you choose one and the other likes you, they'll probably stop being best friends.
If you want to avoid this situation altogether, date someone else instead. Be prepared to lose the guy that you didn't choose. He may not want to be "just friends" after you hung out romantically or flirted with each other. But that may be for the best. Accept your decision. Life is yours to live, and you deserve to live it the way you want -- while trying to hurt others as little as possible.
Though you may feel guilty for making the decision, you and the two guys are better off once you've come to terms with your feelings. Be proud of yourself for making a mature choice instead of leading two guys on forever. Don't be afraid of making mistakes as long as you learn from them. Don't worry about having everyone like you; when you're making a big decision like this, feelings will get hurt. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Remember - no matter what advice anyone may give you - that only you can decide which guy is right for you.
Helpful 5 Not Helpful 1. If you are starting to get annoyed and stressed with the "Who do you choose? There are other fish in the sea, and nobody should put pressure on you to decide things like this - and by trying to choose, you are only making things hard on yourself and may upset them. Helpful 7 Not Helpful 3.
If you really can't choose, take your time. If nothing comes to you, just let the feelings drift. When you're ready, they will be ready and respect that if they love you. Helpful 4 Not Helpful 1. If you can't choose, then look at how each guy views you. Though this isn't about who loves you more, it should say something. If a guy is mildly interested in you or it's just you, and the other goes out of his way to walk with you in the hallway, you need to let that play into your decision.
You don't want to get hurt by the first guy because he never had feelings for you but you chose him anyway, and you don't want to break the second guy's heart simply because you can't let go of the first guy.
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